Damien666x
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How you - out there in cyberspace - have responded to me ...
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Hi -
 I just read your terrific web site.  I used to do work like you do when I lived in Denver in my early twenties.  Now I am 32 and work for the state of Conn and just bought a nice place downtown.
 Am I responding to your ad?  I think so - I never respond to these but you sound like an excellent person.  I am also busy like you but if you get this message feel free to write me back.
 Thank you for sharing - your story is an excellent read.  Cheers.

Mike
 

Hi, Mike:

Thanks for the kind words. I'm glad that you enjoyed what there is of the web site so far, and what there is of the personal history story so far.

Downtown where? You said that you live in Connecticut, but didn't mention where ...

I can understand your unfamiliarity with replying to personal ads and any apprehension which you might have in doing so. Believe me - this is nowhere near the first time I have placed one - I have been doing this - searching for that special someone for a special best friendship for the last couple of years now. Have been dating pretty often, but still haven't quite hit upon the situation and person I'm looking for.

At the risk of sounding arrogant, well - you're right - I AM an "excellent person" - and I more or less seek the same. Someone who values the meaning and recognizes the benefits of a BEST friendship, relationship, whatever you want to label it - without having to label it a la-dee-dah "love story..."

So, tell me about you. What you like and don't like - and I don't mean sexually, that's important too - but somewhat superficial and negotiable, isn't it? What is it that you seek? What "turns you on" with a passion? What completely "turns you off?" About people?  About life?  About sex? About anything else you can think of which might interest me about you?

What do you expect in an intimate friendship/ "relationship"? Don't be afraid to be honest - because GIVING is just as important to me, and necessary - as benefiting from the friendship is - perhaps even much more so. I enjoy having someone special to GIVE to and to take care of - as I enjoy having those things in return from the relationship.

So, go ahead - give it your best shot ...

"Dami ..."